Nice to meet you,
I'm Ray
I have worked in school districts for over 9 years and I have seen how the family dynamic has impacted children either for the better or for the worse. I am also a speaker, author, and happiness coach specializing in family dynamics and stress and mental health management. We believe in meeting families and people where they are at in life and what is causing the most stress in their lives at this given moment in time. We also believe that all of our problems are caused due to some form of stress so making us feel oppressed in our environment when in reality it is all an illusion that things are wrong with us.
As a spiritual leader I speak on the importance of mental and emotional well-being and the role stress plays in our lives and what causes stress and how to deal with it. It takes a certain level of faith to pursue our professional goals and have a family at the same time. I also speak about how we can obtain happiness in our lives with all the spiritual and cultural warfares that are going on in the world currently and how we should not all allow it impact our family dynamics, which we can do by raising our level of consciousness and spiritual awareness. By doing this we become better versions of ourselves, without having to change who we are or what what we believe. Although, to really grow it is important to continue learning in our lives. Our learning journey continues until we pass on.
We should never stop seeking the truth because the minute we stop, we stop growing!
For a world of many divisions religiously and politically, I truly believe that everyone has more in common with each other than what the media leads on. We must embrace each other's differences, accept everyone as family, and focus on the things that do unite, not divide us. Reading and discussing ancient philosophy is great, but it does not do anything to address the problems we are facing now in the 21st century.
As an author my goal is to bridge the gap between mental health and spirituality letting others to understand that the gap is not as dangerous as it seems; as long as we embrace our healing journey, spirituality can be seem as a comfort to many who struggle with mental health. My other goal as an author is give people tools to help them now, and not necessarily keep reliving past information. Although we can learn from the past, it is important to live in the now and to continue moving forward, and we cannot move forward in life if society continues to bring up history! The only way to achieve this is healing our past debts.
As a coach I modeled my business to strengthen the family dynamic and others dealing with family issues. In the process just making them little happier about their current situations in life. I believe all problems we face are based on some sort of family dynamic problem. For individuals I can help with emotional eating, spending, unhappiness in career, spiritual identity. For couples I can help with communication, future vision for your relationship, work life balance, teacher student conflicts, assuming the role of adult care of child care, financial management. Sometimes it is transition points that add a certain level of responsibility on our part that determines are stress level and Ray of Life Me is here to help you make peace with your current life situation and help achieve the success you have been wanting. I truly feel without some sort of spiritual development or some sort of healing it is very difficult to achieve the level of success we are looking for.
a bit more about
My story
As a coach I experienced the divorce of my parents and grief of family members in very early years of my child development years. I spent time in 4 different households, was teased, bullied and abused in my educational, sports, and personal life settings. After the death of my grandmother and desire to love someone I would undergo a mental break losing touch of reality. I would then have to relearn how to live re-establish an identity from within myself. I would go onto college obtaining a degree in environmental studies, and became a very successful substitute teacher. Meeting my wife was life changing and changed my life for the better. We married out of love and not fear, and after my wedding I would go through a spiritual awakening which led me to healing, spiritual development, and expanding my awareness in the world. I am the type of person who still finds away to accomplish his goals no matter what the obstacles in his life bring because there is no final destination in life, only the journey we choose to live. We can be the tortoise, or the hare, we all know who won the race.